Can you imagine people handling their career and financials with the same level of sophistication and care that is most often applied to our sex lives? A man's traditional masculine ego will knowingly or unknowingly stand in the way of a woman and what her body needs for her best sex and orgasm-- to his detriment. It comes from mental conditioning spread by cultural and social influences over a person’s lifetime. One consequence of never examining the weaknesses of this is

A short blog on the positive pattern I've seen over the years with couples who need couples counseling in certain arenas of their relationship, but have a sex interaction that while not ideal, they like each other enough to schedule sexytime if given a fresh new direction. The pattern is a couple begins their first session wondering if they're ready for this and I say to just do it and for the moment, put the past and the baggage aside to give the new approach and material a

Sex life coaching can show you how to have the hours-long sexathons with plenty of orgasms. Coaching can also lead you to your best quickie. The better you are with quickies, the better you are with fitting sexy time in; especially when you're a parent. Quickies often lead to an orgasm for him but not for her. Still, the sex was hot and fun and she doesn't have to come to have fun. Imagine a quickie where she could orgasm every time and climax faster-- before, during, or soon

A client got excited when I told her in her consultation about what I call layered orgasms and layered pleasures. The pleasures part is when you have two or more erogenous zones stimulated simultaneously. I call this the "sundae effect". The trick is how well you can do two or more at once and do them both well-- how good a sundae maker are you? The client had gone through partners being so-so to worse at doing one thing at a time. At best, a rare partner could do one thing w

A couples client I have (I'll call Mr. and Ms. Jones) gave permission for me to blog on some of their sex life coaching. They both were interested in easier, more plentiful orgasms-per-sexytime for her, new positions and methods for female orgasm during intercourse, and oral sex skills for Ms. Jones to indulge Mr. Jones with. In the consultation, they both admitted looking to porn for sex skill guidance and had little success in making the intensity of Mr. Jones' pleasure bet

I worked with a client at in the past (we’ll call her "Jennifer") to great success. Within two consecutive hours of a Guided Session a she had five orgasms. I asked Jennifer if I could blog on her successes and she said yes. She came to me with several goals. The first was learning how to make her orgasm easier to reach. The second was learning more pleasurable stimulation methods on the way to easier orgasms, the third was translating this into partner sex with her lovers,