Coining A New Term: Acute Pleasure

We've all heard the term "acute pain." It's time we recognized the capability of the human body for acute pleasure.

What defines acute pleasure?

1.) Orgasm-inducing pleasure is acute pleasure. The kind that makes autonomic actions like curling toes and feet. Pleasure that results in orgasm and if at a peak of intesity, drastically shortens the time needed to climax. Another aspect is you have to will yourself to keep the pleasurable stimulation going due to its intensity. Some people embrace the sensations and others feel an urge to stop the stimulation source(s) because the brain seeks sensory equilibrium. The bigger the pleasure the bigger the more one has to use the will to keep it at its height. It feels great, but people will want breaks or abruptly stop or tone down stimulation to lessen its strength. This is something I council clients on: how to embrace acute pleasure; not dodge, but love every moment.

2.) A level of pleasure that makes people choose high-quality sex. It redefines the level of payoff in sex and orgasm, especially for women. The bar is raised to a place where the women who have ready access to acute sexual pleasure are much more likely to prioritize sex and orgasm because it is so fulfilling. Women are also capable of multiple orgasm, which if she knows how to do so, pushes up the bar even more. Expert stimulation of multiple erogenous zones simultaneously, e.g. clitoris, plus g-spot, plus a deep spot getting worked all at the same time and all on point, definitely creates acute pleasure. My clients bring that out of words on a blog page into reality.

There are some issues to surmount with acute pleasure: it's much more common than you think for men to reach orgasm during intercourse, but then stop thrusting almost as soon as their climax begins because they're feeling acute pleasure and their minds want to dampen or stop the show due to intensity. I've had women clients mention this as a disappointment they experience during sex with men who fall into this pattern. They know it's more fulfilling to be with men who maximize their orgasm inside them by: not stopping, going a bit faster and maybe harder, instructing the woman to squeeze her vaginal muscles tightly throughout his orgasm; along with making attractive, masculine, vocalizations and actions to endure and fully enjoy the force of acute orgasmic pleasure. This also reaffirms their desirability to him, which very often is a need of feminine ego. Pro tip: don't stop thrusting unless instructed, don't go silent or muffled. It's anti-climactic, literally.

If your goal is to impress women with how exciting you are in bed, choose ways to show sexual prowess that benefit both of you and are grounded in reality, not illusion. Know that how you run intercourse is part of the show for her, but don't thrust insensitively. Watch to see if you raise intensity of action that she likes it. However, also pay attention to how a bit faster or slower and depth changes makes things better or doesn't change things much. You can learn all about these fine details and more via sex life coaching.

Clients learn what it takes for their bodies to have the best chance to produce their strongest orgasm. It's way past time that people learn to maximize payoff from the relatively small amount of time most have to spend on having sex. The reason we make louder expressions during an orgasm you aren't pulling back from is because the feelings are acute and to endure them, you make louder sounds. Like a roller coaster where you yell louder because you're trapped in the coaster and are forced to take the ride, not hop off it when it gets acute. People can force themselves to stay quiet during acute pleasure, but a louder vocalization does make it more likely you won't pull back whether you want to or not. It is also cathartic. Your appreciative affection after acute pleasure strengthens relationship bonds.

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