Intercourse Good, But Only One or No Orgasms? Time To Upgrade.


I’ve recently had a few clients and prospective clients come in who are women with one relatively common theme: they love lots of intercourse and passion, but they aren’t having orgasms or only one– so they want an upgrade.I see this a lot in the culture and in my coaching work. Many women like or love how vaginal intercourse feels with all its big and small details, but without orgasms, they’re repeating patterns that you see in almost every adult video in existence: hot fcuking, orgasm finale’ for him, but not for her or not every time.

For many women, that’s sex– which is logical. If that’s what you see in vids, experience in real life, read about in simplistic erotica (women’s orgasms do happen in those, albeit fantastically with no believable explanations), and talk about with your BFF’s, then that’s all there is, right?

The other thread that drew the women who contacted me together was a desire to want more from sex; to wonder if there was anything else they’re missing that directly benefits them. That’s one set of answers that sex life coaching strongly specializes in which leads me to my next point.

Most people I see are in two catagories: those who aren’t confident about what they can make in the bedroom and those who like what they have, but want to upgrade. When you first look at my work, you assume that I only work with beginners and those with a lot to learn. Actually, it’s the other group: the upgraders, that I work with most. It makes sense because it’s true that the majority of people of any sexual preference have a good basic block of sex skills that they knew they had to put a little effort into in the beginning and are now coasting with thinking that box is checked.

Upgraders don’t have any major mental hangups with sex either, so they know they aren’t interested in seeing a psychology-based sex therapist. These women upgraders want orgasms. Again, some may already have them in some form, but want more, bigger, easier, and better ones. Upgraders want to unlock new things and then do them. Over and over again. Then upgrade again! Those thoughts excite them. Passion plus Big female orgasms excite them.

And I love making these dreams happen as part of what they learn from my knowledge base.

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